It's quite a city. To these American eyes of mine, it appeared very chaotic and dirty, and to my ever-so-fastidious American nose it smelled--well, very smelly. Mostly diesel fumes together with a hint of yesterday's food.
I feel pretty stupid about my earlier comment that the tour of the city was depressing. As they say, "Well, DUH!!!!!"
A country in which 1/4 of the population was slaughtered by its own government less than 40 years ago can be forgiven for being depressing. And I must say, they sure don't try to sweep it under a rug. Look at this: DIRECTIONS to the genocide center!
And what a museum it is. I've never been to, say, Auschwitz, but the impression would have to be similar--that miserably heavy sensation at the bottom of your stomach that reminds you that you are a member of a species that has committed the most unthinkable acts this world has known. I realize it MUST be remembered, but I choose to be Pollyanna and leave it at this one photograph of the temple the Cambodians have constructed to honor some of those killed at the Killing Fields.
I was so thrilled to see a living breathing cow I asked my puzzled tuk-tuk driver to stop so I could take a photo. And here it is. Living AND breathing!
My driver cheerfully chauffeured me around to other sights of the city, but by then I was so disheartened I was frantic to get out of there.
It was reassuringly funny when I mis-heard an exchange between my driver and a motorcyclist. You've heard about my American eyes and nose; well, this time it's my American ears. The motorcyclist cut my guy off in traffic, and my driver yelled what surely sounded to me like "F--- you!" Very understandable, I thought. The guy yelled back [I thought] "A--hole!" Also very understandable, I thought.
But then we stopped at a stoplight, and the two started chatting amicably, and I realized they were simply friends who happened to cross paths on a busy street. No American hostilities, just a cheerful exchange of greetings. So, you see, I even HEAR like an American!
After seeing the pic. of the "Monument" it gave a whole new meaning to "Put your heads together". We may be cousins of this species, but that's it. Like the dog world there are many different ways of life. From lap dog to wolf, we too have a wide range of... well... cultures. I for one am a lap dog and claim no kinship with that wolf. That being said, I think it's time for you to come home now.
ReplyDeleteI loved your description of the exchange bewteen your driver and the motorcyclist. Given what you had experienced earlier that day, a little humor was good therapy.
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